The content of this site is intended for those above the age of 18. Minors, please follow this link to a more age- appropriate website.
Thank you,

Safe Sex is Sexy!



100 Things That Contribute To Make Me, Me

I have seen a few blogs where people have compiled a list of 100 things that contribute to who they are.

Here goes:

1. I love to sing, but I sound like shit and I don’t care.  2. I  make friends very easily.  3. I am an extremely kinky person.  4. I am a hopeless romantic.  5. I get teary-eyed from sappy commercials and sad movies. 6. I like romantic comedies.   7. I enjoy spending time by myself, it helps me grow.   8. If I love you (friend, family, lover) I would give my life for you.  9. I am compassionate person, I would give my last $5 to someone who needs it more.  10. I never want to get old, but know I will.   11. I am scared of dying. 12. Every day I think the loss of my dog will get better and it does, but it makes me feel guilty that I don’t cry everyday.   13. I go through mini bouts of introspectiveness 1-2x year (sounds better than depression).  14. I talk to God like he is my friend, I call him “Big Guy” 15. I’m in touch with my feminine side.  16. I sit down and pee.   17. I have a hot temper.   18. I am italian-american 19. In high school I stuck up for the nerdy kids.   20. I am nerdy.   21. My heart has been broken a few times, I don’t regret it. 22. I have a competitive streak in me.   23. I become addicted to things easily.   24. I never want to become complacent with life.   25. I can sit and read for hours on end.   26. Music is probably my favorite thing in the whole world.  27. I have been a dj/music producer for over 20 years.   28. I will probably never pay my student loan debt off and that is a huge wait on my shoulders.  29. Vanity is my worst sin. 30. The sight of a beautiful woman can bring me to my knees.   31. What I think is beautiful varies so much.  32. I love being a pisces, and I am true to form.  33. I love being naked.   34. I am very critical of myself.   35. I developed OCD and became very anal at a certain point in my life when I needed change; my life wasn’t perfect, so I tried to perfect everything around me   36. I am blown away by that last statement because, I never realized that until I just wrote it.   37. Writing my blog has become an extremely liberating process for me.   38. I am bad at saving money because I know I can’t take it with me when I die.   39. Cooking is active meditation for me.   40. I love to day dream.   41. Chicken soup gives me nightmares. LOL!I don’t know why (some psychosomatic bullshit I haven’t figured out yet) 42. I think with my heart, and it always rules out over logic.   43. I can never get enough of school, I love learning. 44. Whatever I do in life, I do with passion and whole heartedly.   45. I am pansexual and so proud of it. 46. Not all of my family and friends know yet, but they will soon.  47. Sometimes I bite off more than I can chew (like this 100   48. I am extremely outgoing, but I am also a little shy.   49. I’ve had a few different careers and loved them all.  50. I loved being a starving artist, now I am a Chiropractor that supports the starving artist inside me.   51. I lost my virginity at 15 to a 29yo  woman, I remember everything about her.   52. At one point in my life I gave up sex for close to a year because I felt it was controlling me.   53. I learned so much about my body in that time period.  54. I’m weird.   55. I like taking things to the extreme.   56. I am very sentimental.  57. I am most happy when I’m being creative.  58. The sight of a person in wrist/ankle cuffs and a collar is so sexy.   59. I love being the person in #58, and being spanked.  60. I find feet, and especially toes so sexy.  61. Belly buttons are the eyes to the soul 62. I love underwear .63. My favorite poem is:

Your Feet

When I cannot look at your face
I look at your feet.
Your feet of arched bone,
your hard little feet.
I know that they support you,
and that your sweet weight
rises upon them.
Your waist and your breasts,
the doubled purple
of your nipples,
the sockets of your eyes
that have just flown away,
your wide fruit mouth,
your red tresses,
my little tower.
But I love your feet
only because they walked
upon the earth and upon
the wind and upon the waters,
until they found me.

Pablo Neruda

64. I read my horoscope everyday.   65. At one point in my life, when I was younger, I had 9 body piercings.  66. I love body ink, but still haven’t done any yet 67. My favorite part of my body is my eyes 68. My favorite part of someone else’s body, is their eyes.   69. I am an ass man, and I love giving and receiving anal sex.   70. I am very spiritual 71. Politically liberal.  72. Before I die, I want to spend a month in a buddhist monastery.   73. I love gadgets, video games and electronics.   74. I have no pre-conceived notions of what sexy is.  75. I feel I have out grown a lot of my friends since I moved back to NYC.  76. I love to kiss.  77. Foreplay should not have a time limit.  78.  I like to leave dirty notes on a post it in my lover’s jacket, bag etc, and on the other side write I love you.  79. I feel the USA is too uptight about sex, but we are making progress at a fairly good pace.  80. I love reading, writing, conversing and exploring anything and everything about human sexuality.  81. I try to detox regularly with fasting, colonics and meditation.  82. I am starting a yoga class soon and I am turned on by the thought of naked yoga.   83. I love dark chocolate.  84. I collect sneakers especially vintage.  85. I eat mostly organic.  86. I love farmer’s markets.  87. I am addicted to the internet.  88. I am a mac addict, have been for over 10 years.   89. I am a slow food movement member. 90. I speak italian.  91. I am a night owl.   92. I have to have a cup of coffee before I can function.   93. I love to dance.    94. I think that getting naked in the middle of the day just for fun is healthy.  95. I have a lucky charm.  96. I pamper myself.   97. I am an accessory whore (belts, watches, sunglasses).   98. I am not a big breakfast eater, Latte and biscotti only.   99. My library is getting too big. 100. Wow! I was worried I would run out of things, but now I feel it wasn’t enough… *smile*!



2 comments to 100 Things That Contribute To Make Me, Me

  • Vixen

    I did a list like that numerous years ago when I first picked up blogging. They really make you open your eyes to who you are.

    I really enjoyed reading your list.

    Oh. And I just saw your L Word widget. That’s awesome. :) It’s my favorite show!

  • MarcelloNYC

    Mine too!

    I can not get enough of that show.


    I really enjoyed writing it.

Leave a Reply




You can use these HTML tags

<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>