We met for coffee and started chatting. The conversation was moving in many different directions, so I asked him if he was seeing anyone, and he replied, "I am bisexual, but I just ended a 5year relationship with a guy that I have known for almost 10 years; we are still close friends, and there is no bad blood. And You?"
The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.
- Marcel Proust
Friday, April 25, 2008
I am single, bisexual, actually prefer pansexual and I am enjoying dating, single life and sexblogging.
"Yeah, it has been an amazing few months opening up my life for everyone to peek in and read, comment (good or bad) and I have made some great friends."
Then I told him about "ambiguously bi guy" and he lost it in laughter. Then I showed him my blog, he read the steam room story and said - "WOW!"
His response was, "I saw you in the gym a few times prior to that spin class, but I did not have the nerve to come over and start up a conversation. I hate spin class and joined because you were in it."
His cheeks became rosy red - he was blushing. I love it! I blush very easy also.
He continued to say, "I could not decide if you were bi/straight/gay also, and didn't want to make an ass out of myself."
I said, "I know, I felt the same way."
So we had a date planned for last night, but he unfortunately had to cancel. His ex had a car crash and was temporarily unconscious, and he was listed as the in-case of emergency contact. As all good friends do, he ran to his rescue - shows he has good character. His friend is ok - minor concussion and a a few bruises. I offered my services as a chiropractor and, Rob (ambibiguy) said he would bring him in today.
We are meeting Sunday evening for a few drinks. I will post the details.
PS. I received a funny text from him this morning and it said - "HNT - You have to love seeing the whole package before the first date - lol." R.