The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.
                        - Marcel Proust

Thursday, February 28, 2008

hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRsDaY!


~Feeling a little blue~

I almost posted The March 6th Mac HNt by accident; it has been a ruff day, my grandfather passed away this morning.

If I am late to comment on your HNT, it is because I will be at a wake all day.

So, here is my new HNT Pics.

Trying to be different, but sexy. I hope these are not too raunchy for HNT. 



Wednesday, February 27, 2008

I Will Miss You Nonno!

At approximately 5am this morning, my grandfather passed on from his worldly life. I feel he held on long enough to celebrate my birthday; I was his favorite, and we shared a special bond. My grandfather influenced me and taught me so much, even though he couldn't read or write in english or italian.

I learned to cook and take care of a family because of him. The love and patience that he put into every Sunday meal, I have carried on with family and friends.

My work ethic came from him also, "Whatever your job is in life, do it 100% and be proud of your work".

I will miss him dearly.

I love you grandpa,

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

hApPy bIrThDaY tO mE!

I love my birthday. I hate getting older, but I truly enjoy the whole day, even the agony of listening to each and every family member call and sing happy birthday, which I secretly love!

I read my horoscope everyday, and today I also read a daily affirmation from

I choose not to hide behind a false mask.
Such a mask would hide my unique beauty!"

This definitely represents how I feel, and have felt about myself. Each and every year that I celebrate my special day, I always try to set a new resolution for myself. This year my resolution is to keep evolving sexually, enjoy the person that I have become and all that this path of self-discovery has to offer.


Monday, February 25, 2008


The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. 

This Week’s Picks

The Ache of Desire Unsatisfied

“J groaned in my ear, and I nearly pulled down his zipper then and there.”


“Tingles of electricity were set coursing up and down that side of my body.”

Part(y)ing shots

“I placed both my hands on the tiled wall in front of me, clammy and cold, holding myself up.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

The “Best way to make him felt hot”

Editor’s Choice

Who Is A Sex Worker?

More Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

BDSM & Fetish

The administration of pain
Cock Blogging
Expect the unexpected
Happy hunting
I got quoted in Bitchy Jones!
A Lying Husband’s Spanking and Mouthsoaping
So Hard It Hurts
Vegas Squeeze Toy

Sex Poetry

The Sweetest Fruit: An Ode to Cunninglingus    (Yours Truly)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Navigating the Shoals of Infidelity
Silent Sex
Statute of limitations for rape
Tales from the Floor: Pure Njoy-ment
What is fasionable today?
Why Christianity hates sex (possibly)
WWYD: Presidents Day Edition

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Action Girls’ Latest Erotic Photo Galleries
The Beauty Of Nature
Hot Wax at LSM with Madeline
Mizuki Horii
Nikki Nefarious Has Taken, And Modeled, The Hottest Photograph Ever (Altered Aperture)
Redhead Submissive Tied Up In Box (Fetish, shibari,
Suzie Carina - Hotel Room Briana Banks, Monique Alexander, Nadia Styles & Sunny Leone

Sex Work

Catalina loves Couples (D/s)

Sex Advice

How to Bend Over Your Boyfriend and Make Him Like It
The Ultimate Sex Position?

Erotic Writing and Experiences

After the gaurd 2
Blue Air
The Cam Lover screwed a hot black escort in London - Part 2
Catalina loves Great Cookies
Eternal Kiss…An Erotic Paranormal Tale
The magic dinner party
Excerpt - The Party Crasher
The Naughty Dentist - Part One
Phantom Stirrings
The therapy session

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

Blog Contest Teaser
Harmony Rose Dominates Glory Hole Perv And Fucks Him With Strap-On (Bondage, Femdom,
Ron Jeremy Reviews: Souja Boy

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Sexual-Eccentricity (My Sexual Evolution P2)

I would like to start off by saying, if you have not read my first blog post, then some of this might not be completely clear to you.

Most of you probably know that on New Year's Eve I realized I am bisexual, and to be specific, pansexual.

So, a friend of mine that I met via asked me recently if I had any clue  earlier in my life if I was gay or bisexual. I thought about this for a few hours and responded to her via email; then I elaborated on that message to write this blog post.

At the age of 10/11, myself and 2 other boys all the same age, got naked and started exploring each other's bodies; nothing overtly sexual, just touching. This happened every few days for about a month, until we were caught. Nothing was mentioned of it, and I moved on in life and never really thought much about it. 

During my teen years I never found guys attractive, and never thought I was gay or bisexual. Around 15 I started exploring my anal region, I knew there was a hole there, a finger fit in it and it felt good when I did it. I never questioned if it made me gay or not, it was my body and I could do with it what I wanted if it brought me pleasure. I think that was a pretty profound view point for a teenager. 

Then at 18 I saw a porn movie entitled, "The Opening of Christy Bethoven". In this movie I guy is fucked with a strap-on, and I thought it was wonderful! 

note: This along with my girl cousins sticking their feet in my face when I was 9, and the fact that during puberty and my teens I always fantasized about being a sex-slave to a girl(s), lead to my submissive nature and interest in BDSM.

At 21 is when I met Mistress Andrea and enjoyed my first experience with BDSM. We spent a wonderful 2 years together in a D/s relationship where I was collared to her, and we regularly engaged in strap-on/anal play. Mistress Andrea and i always invited others into our sex life. I was dominated by Her and Her male friend whom was a DOM. I felt there was nothing sexual coming from him, just orders and a spanking, which is sexual in nature, but at that time I don't think I was ready to understand what was happening or what I was feeling. 

Then at 22 I was dj-ing at a club in Miami and there was a transexual girl and a drag queen sexually ravishing this guy, who when I think about it now, was hot. The scene turned me on so much and I didn't know why. When I returned home, I told Mistress Andrea about it, and we came to the conclusion that I am turned on by the whole gender-bending aspect, and when I felt ready I should explore it more. 

After we split up, about a year later I was dj-ing at a club, met a girl, went home with her and she turned out to be a transexual. After calming down from my nerves, we shared an amazing sexual experience together. I always had an interest in meeting a transexual girl since that time in Miami.  We dated for a few months and became very close friends, and still are tody. My experience with her really helped me become the person I am today. She allowed me to get to know her, and because of that, my attraction to transexual women has always been one of respect and admiration for them as a person, and not as a sexual perversion (ie: my pansexuality). 

Through out the remaining years until present, I have been with other transexual women, and enjoyed lot's of anal play with girlfriends and as a submissive in BDSM scenes. The question, "am I gay or bi" entered my mind often, but I stuck to the same answer, "I am attracted to femininity and not masculinity". I tried masturbating by fantasizing about guys, but nothing happened.

Two years ago while watching some transexual porn, two males in the scene began to have sex with each other, and I couldn't turn away . I watched it, but I feel I did not allow myself to fully enjoy it because I was nervous about what I was feeling; I dismissed it and moved on. 

There has been other clues: The book Exit To Eden by Ann Rice had a very homosexual undertone to it, and I did the same thing; I read it and I was turned on, but didn't allow myself to explore why I felt that way. I also was a huge fan of Queer As Folk, and once again, the same feelings. These are just a few of the things that are coming to mind. When I think about it now, I think part of the reason I did not allow myself to explore why I was feeling that sexual excitement is because, my friends whom were gay were going through ruff times with family and friends, and I think I did not want to experience that.  Just a theory.

Then around christmas, as I wrote previously, I read the book SoMa by Kemble Scott and really became turned on by the male-male sex scenes. This is the first time in my life I read or watched something, and said to myself, "wow, maybe  I am bisexual"! I explored it more by buying some bisexual porn, then some gay porn. I love it! On the Kinsey Scale I would say I am a 4, equally straight and gay.

Looking back on my life there has been times when I thought about it, but never followed through. I was in a nightclub in SF in my mid 20's, I was alone and having a great time; I met 2 guys whom were gay, we partied together, dropped ecstacy, and they were coming on to me in a non-aggressive way - if that makes sense. They were hot! One of them asked me if I was gay or bi, and I replied, "I am curious". Nothing happened sexually, but we were dancing together in a provocative way with no shirts on. When I was ready to leave, the same guy said to me, "be careful and don't rush into anything"' I replied. "what?". He  then said to me, "I personally think you are gay/bi, but it might take you a while to realize it, and when and if you do, don't rush into anything, take your time and use good judgment". He then said with a funny laugh,"if i was a jerk I would have pressured you into coming home with us, and you would have came, but I think it was wrong for you at this time for whatever reason. That same guy today is one of my closest friends, he bought me that book.

Also, one of my best friends came out to me when he was 18. He is another one who never pressured me, or asked me questions about my sexuality unless I brought a topic up for discussion. Through out my life I have always had more in common with my friends whom are GLBTQ, and always enjoyed their company more.

My sexuality has really evolved at its own pace, and there has never been any mental anguish about any aspect of it. I have always been very open and honest with myself about what I like, and never felt anything was wrong with me. I always felt that I was a very sexually open person and that I had nothing to be ashamed of, only to be proud of my sexual-eccentricity.

Tristan Taormino has an article in the Village Voice that elaborates on what is considered to be the queer heterosexual, someone whom basically is straight, but does not in fit the societal description of a typical straight guy/girl, but is not gay/lesbian. I feel when I was younger, that I somewhat fit this categorization.

Once again, I am so happy to share my sexuality with you, and if there is anything you would like to ask me, add to this about yourself, or just to say I enjoyed it or didn't, please comment.


Friday, February 22, 2008

Sugasm 119

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. 

This Week’s Picks

The Rule of Blowjobs for Women
“Tease. Spend time. Don’t just start out like a Hoover on overdrive.”

Commercialising Romance or “I bought you this card now where’s my blowjob?”
“If it takes a specific date for your partner to show you he loves you then what do you have?”

“She smiled up at him, from her vantage point between his knees, and continued what she’d been doing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Editor’s Choice
Hazards of the Biz

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday


This was sent to my cellphone this morning and I thought it was great!

A man escapes from a prison where he's been locked up for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns. Inside, he finds a young couple in bed. He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the homeowner's wife to the bed, the convict gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom. While he's in there, the husband whispers over to his wife: "Listen, this guy is an escaped convict. Look at his clothes! He's probably spent a lot of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain…do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is obviously very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us both. Be strong, honey. I love you!" His wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck – he was whispering in my ear. He told me that he's gay, thinks you're cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong. I love you, too." 

Thursday, February 21, 2008

hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRsDaY!

hApPy HnT: i SlEeP nAkeD, sO iT wAs eAsY tO tAkE  A hAlF-nEkKiD piC! 

Saturday, February 16, 2008

The Sweetest Fruit: An Ode to Cunninglingus

The sweetest fruit known to the world is the Vagina

The taste, the scent, the feel of these gentle folds, drive men and women crazy

First, I love to smell her scent

 I follow with a playful kiss, lick and a tug with my lips

I  grip her hips and press my mouth on the inside of her thighs 
I love it when she she thrusts back into me

 Her wetness and her scent are intoxicating

 I am drunk on her juices

I slide my tongue as deep as I can into her pussy 

Hoping to taste her soul

I run it along her clit

Teasing her, I want it to last

 I could stay here forever 

Her wetness and her scent are enough to sustain my existence

The intensity grows stronger with each passing second

She shakes, quivers and moans

"OMG....I'm cumming!"

Chaos followed by blissful peace

I lay my head on the inside of her thigh and wait

 She is enjoying her nirvana

 She pulls me up and kisses me deeply

She knows I am happiest when pleasing her

 That is all I need in life!


Friday, February 15, 2008

100 Things That Contribute To Make Me, Me

I have seen a few blogs where people have compiled a list of 100 things that contribute to who they are.

Here goes:

1. I love to sing, but I sound like shit and I don't care.  2. I  make friends very easily.  3. I am an extremely kinky person.  4. I am a hopeless romantic.  5. I get teary-eyed from sappy commercials and sad movies. 6. I like romantic comedies.   7. I enjoy spending time by myself, it helps me grow.   8. If I love you (friend, family, lover) I would give my life for you.  9. I am compassionate person, I would give my last $5 to someone who needs it more.  10. I never want to get old, but know I will.   11. I am scared of dying. 12. Every day I think the loss of my dog will get better and it does, but it makes me feel guilty that I don't cry everyday.   13. I go through mini bouts of introspectiveness 1-2x year (sounds better than depression).  14. I talk to God like he is my friend, I call him "Big Guy" 15. I'm in touch with my feminine side.  16. I sit down and pee.   17. I have a hot temper.   18. I am italian-american 19. In high school I stuck up for the nerdy kids.   20. I am nerdy.   21. My heart has been broken a few times, I don't regret it. 22. I have a competitive streak in me.   23. I become addicted to things easily.   24. I never want to become complacent with life.   25. I can sit and read for hours on end.   26. Music is probably my favorite thing in the whole world.  27. I have been a dj/music producer for over 20 years.   28. I will probably never pay my student loan debt off and that is a huge wait on my shoulders.  29. Vanity is my worst sin. 30. The sight of a beautiful woman can bring me to my knees.   31. What I think is beautiful varies so much.  32. I love being a pisces, and I am true to form.  33. I love being naked.   34. I am very critical of myself.   35. I developed OCD and became very anal at a certain point in my life when I needed change; my life wasn't perfect, so I tried to perfect everything around me   36. I am blown away by that last statement because, I never realized that until I just wrote it.   37. Writing my blog has become an extremely liberating process for me.   38. I am bad at saving money because I know I can't take it with me when I die.   39. Cooking is active meditation for me.   40. I love to day dream.   41. Chicken soup gives me nightmares. LOL!I don't know why (some psychosomatic bullshit I haven't figured out yet) 42. I think with my heart, and it always rules out over logic.   43. I can never get enough of school, I love learning. 44. Whatever I do in life, I do with passion and whole heartedly.   45. I am pansexual and so proud of it. 46. Not all of my family and friends know yet, but they will soon.  47. Sometimes I bite off more than I can chew (like this 100   48. I am extremely outgoing, but I am also a little shy.   49. I've had a few different careers and loved them all.  50. I loved being a starving artist, now I am a Chiropractor that supports the starving artist inside me.   51. I lost my virginity at 15 to a 29yo  woman, I remember everything about her.   52. At one point in my life I gave up sex for close to a year because I felt it was controlling me.   53. I learned so much about my body in that time period.  54. I'm weird.   55. I like taking things to the extreme.   56. I am very sentimental.  57. I am most happy when I'm being creative.  58. The sight of a person in wrist/ankle cuffs and a collar is so sexy.   59. I love being the person in #58, and being spanked.  60. I find feet, and especially toes so sexy.  61. Belly buttons are the eyes to the soul 62. I love underwear .63. My favorite poem is:

Your Feet

When I cannot look at your face
I look at your feet.
Your feet of arched bone,
your hard little feet.
I know that they support you,
and that your sweet weight
rises upon them.
Your waist and your breasts,
the doubled purple
of your nipples,
the sockets of your eyes
that have just flown away,
your wide fruit mouth,
your red tresses,
my little tower.
But I love your feet
only because they walked
upon the earth and upon
the wind and upon the waters,
until they found me.

Pablo Neruda

64. I read my horoscope everyday.   65. At one point in my life, when I was younger, I had 9 body piercings.  66. I love body ink, but still haven't done any yet 67. My favorite part of my body is my eyes 68. My favorite part of someone else's body, is their eyes.   69. I am an ass man, and I love giving and receiving anal sex.   70. I am very spiritual 71. Politically liberal.  72. Before I die, I want to spend a month in a buddhist monastery.   73. I love gadgets, video games and electronics.   74. I have no pre-conceived notions of what sexy is.  75. I feel I have out grown a lot of my friends since I moved back to NYC.  76. I love to kiss.  77. Foreplay should not have a time limit.  78.  I like to leave dirty notes on a post it in my lover's jacket, bag etc, and on the other side write I love you.  79. I feel the USA is too uptight about sex, but we are making progress at a fairly good pace.  80. I love reading, writing, conversing and exploring anything and everything about human sexuality.  81. I try to detox regularly with fasting, colonics and meditation.  82. I am starting a yoga class soon and I am turned on by the thought of naked yoga.   83. I love dark chocolate.  84. I collect sneakers especially vintage.  85. I eat mostly organic.  86. I love farmer's markets.  87. I am addicted to the internet.  88. I am a mac addict, have been for over 10 years.   89. I am a slow food movement member. 90. I speak italian.  91. I am a night owl.   92. I have to have a cup of coffee before I can function.   93. I love to dance.    94. I think that getting naked in the middle of the day just for fun is healthy.  95. I have a lucky charm.  96. I pamper myself.   97. I am an accessory whore (belts, watches, sunglasses).   98. I am not a big breakfast eater, Latte and biscotti only.   99. My library is getting too big. 100. Wow! I was worried I would run out of things, but now I feel it wasn't enough... *smile*!


Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy HNT, S.A.D. & V' Day!

Well my favorite day of the week is here..HNT! Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday. I added a red tint to this pic to keep in the spirit of the day.

I also know today is Valentines's Day, and I am not against it, only the commercialism of the day. 

It also happens to be S.A.D.- Singles Awareness Day. This is a day that we as singles can rejoice in the fact that we are happy with ourselves, and that we do not need another person to make our lives feel meaningful. I am happily single! I do date a lot, but I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy; I am happy with myself. My friends love me, my family loves me, I love me. 

Tonight I have plans, not because it is V'Day, but because I want to see Molly Crabapple's Burlesque Show in Brooklyn with a close friend as part of the Get off ....Line V: Roaring Twentieth 5th Annual Valentines Day Party, hosted  by Scorpio & Gemini. We are going as two happy single people who both love burlesque. 

Lastly, I hope that whatever your plans are for this day, take some time out to do something for you: buy a sex toy, masturbate in the mirror, or tell yourself - you love you. 

I sure love you, and me too *smile*!


P.S. This is my bathroom - red walls.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Sugasm #118

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants.

This Week’s Picks:
An Erotic Story…Samson and Delilah
“Now how exactly does one go about seducing a preacher?”
A Kiss
“Then, the lulling low roar of your voice falls away and we are both leaning forward, transfixed.”
Clif & Lydia Drop Over The Edge
“She nervously giggled and lowered her lashes. ”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Secret of Playboy Legs
Editor’s Choice
The Carnival of Feminists 53: Call for submissions
More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

Monday, February 11, 2008


Last Thursday I participated for the first time in HNT (half-nekkid thursdays), and I have to say that this idea is up there with the invention of electricity, flight, internet etc....

Taking off all of my clothes in the middle of the afternoon to snap a photograph of myself is exhilarating. OMG, I was so horny after taking that picture. 

The other night after I stepped out from the shower, I snapped a few more pics of myself for ALT; it was fun, but stripping naked at mid-day to do it is way better. I honestly can not wait to thursday to take a pic, and I will do it again after being fully clothed at high noon..LOL!

This Thursday is Valentine's Day and I can't wait to see what you all come up with.


Sunday, February 10, 2008

18 Days!

It has been 18 days since I started this blog. WOW!

In this time period I have logged over 2k unique visitors and purchased my own domain. I have made a lot of new friends, and although our friendships are of a cyber nature, I hope we stay friends forever.

A few people have left comments and voted in my poll; I hope more of you decide to show yourselves, I want to hear from you all.

Note: I know I spelled Lesbian wrong in the poll. Someone voted before I had a chance to correct it, and now I unfortunately can not change the spelling. I didn't even realize it until I went to vote the next day. Sorry! 

Lastly, I would like to say that writing about my sexuality over the last two weeks has allowed me to grow so much that it boggles my mind.  It is so liberating, and very much a turn-on, to share my thoughts and my sexuality with you.

I hope you all have a happy-lazy sunday afternoon.

Thank you,

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Happy HNT!

hApPy hAlF nEkKid tHuRsDaYs......YeeHa!

This is my first HNT pic.

Me and my turns me on!!

Yes, I am weird!!



Personal Growth Through BDSM

Ciao Everyone:

I pose this question. Can there be healing and growth through BDSM? My answer, a resounding, YES!

The true story that follows, is from a scene that my Mistress and i performed about 8 years ago. This scene is proof that BDSM can have profound effects on an individual's life, may it be the Dom/-mme and/or the submissive.

We were at a dinner party, and we were exploring the following subjects: "if you had to lose 1 of the 5 senses, which one would you pick" & "what are you afraid of in life"?

My reply: "I can not imagine losing my sense of taste, I love, and I am great at cooking; hearing, music moves me more than anything else; vision, it is scary to think how blind people must feel. My fears in life were: giving up 100% control, fear of being alone, and a fear of moving away from my family".

We went home and didn't really speak about the evening, except how much we enjoyed the company of these couples(D/s) we just met. 

Later on that week, she asked me if I trusted her, and i said, "yes". We went to an apartment that I was never at before, She blindfolded me, bound me to the bed, and put sound isolating ear plugs in my ears. Before hand she told me that after she was finished she was going to leave and come back whenever she felt. I think it was about 1 1/2 - 2hrs before she returned. In that time frame I had a panic attack, heart pounding, sweating, felt like I was going to die - panic attack.

When she returned, she removed the ear-pieces, and asked me if i still trusted Her, i said, "yes"; She asked me if i was OK, i said, "yes again". She then told me 2 other people were in the room and she was going to leave me to them, and that she would be back soon. I heard their voices, and her footsteps leaving and closing the door behind her. The ear-pieces were put back on and a ball-gag was placed in my mouth. For the next 2-3 hrs nothing happened to me, except the occasional brush of my skin to let me know that they were still there.  

This was indeed a very scary time, I had no idea who those people were, and what they might do to me. I was helpless! I took myself to a place that I have never been. In my mind, I envisioned Mistress Andrea: Her loving smile, the trust i had in Her, and that kept me calm and peaceful and ready to deal with whatever they might do to me. 

Eventually all the sensory deprivation equipment was removed, and i could see my Mistress (she looked exactly the way i was envisioning Her in my mind). Then the restraints were unlocked, and I curled up Her arms and cried.  

Some info that you need to know before reading the next section:

(My Mistress always wore Burberry Perfume. The day of that scene She wore a bought off the street musk perfume.....I didn't even notice. During those last 3 hours, whenever either of the two became close to me, I smelled that musk scent. Before the the sensory deprivation equipment was removed, she showered and put on burberry.)

A few weeks later we were watching TV, she excused herself, went to the bathroom and put on that musk perfume. As soon as she curled up next to me, I had flashbacks of that day. I said to her, "you were there the whole time", she replied "yes, I told you I would keep you safe and let nothing happen to you, and now you will never underestimate the power of scent". I began using my sense of smell more, and have become a better chef because of it. She always, and still has a pet peeve that people dont slow down enough to smell things.

To me it was a complete mind-fuck and an incredible experience. It made me realize that no matter how far away I might be, the people I love will still be in my mind and close to me. The whole time I was blindfolded, I saw her in my mind, the images so clear, so precise, that it made me relax and not painc anymore, it brought me comfort.

This experience helped me loose my fears, and move away from my family to another state for school. It helped me grow into the person I am today. Now, I am comfortable in being alone, I take chances in life, and I am always smelling things now.

Mistress Andrea and i split up when i left for school, and Her Europe. We remain the best of friends and talk via the internet regularly. She is allowing me to post Her name. I have since returned to NYC from Atlanta, and She lives in Paris in a D/s relationship with a female submissive.

Hope you enjoyed that part of my life.



Monday, February 4, 2008


I love to kiss! 

In my opinion, the most intimate act two or more people can share, is the kiss. 

Kissing someone for the first time is a pleasure like no other.  Leaning in, turning your head, touching your lips, playfully kissing his/her bottom or upper lip, tongues dancing together, twinkles in your eyes, the wetness of a kiss, the taste of a kiss, the funny feelings in the tummy......OMG I could keep going on!

I love to kiss!

Kissing is not just about lip to lip contact. Kissing a body part is just as much fun: kissing each and every bone of your lovers back - from the base of their spine up to their neck,  shoulders, ears, nipples down to the belly button, genitals, fingers, toes & knees.....every inch of their bodies!

I love to kiss!

I love planting a nice puckered kiss on my lover's cheek. Mmmmwah..... with a nice kiss-smack at the end!

I love to kiss!

Some facts about kissing:

The longest kiss took place in 2001 NYC between Louisa Almedovar and Rich Langley, it lasted 30hrs 59m 29s. WOW....lucky couple!

The average person spends two weeks of their life doesn't seem long enough!

You Burn 26 cal/hr kissing.....I call that fat-burning fun!!!

At the Diocleia festival at Megara in honour of Diocles, lover of Philolaus, a kissing contest was held in which   boys would kiss a male judge, who awarded a laurel wreath to the boy he deemed the best kisser. The Romans distinguished three types of kiss: osculum, a friendship kiss on the cheek; basium, a kiss of affection on the lips; and suavium (also known as savium), a lovers' deep kiss. (wikpedia)  Very Cool!

So, lets try and kiss instead of fight! 


Saturday, February 2, 2008


The other day a friend and I were having a coffee and I noticed a girl sitting across from us, not what most guys would call a "knockout", but she was so sexy in her own way. I have always had my own-diverse attractions, and never conformed to societal standards of beauty.  

This girl was about 5'7, 160lbs,  dark hair, tattoo on the back of  her neck (ohm-yoga symbol), glasses, and beautiful blue eyes. She was sitting, legs crossed, reading a book, her hair was tied up like a buddhist monk, and she was so in-tune with her book that she was oblivious to her surroundings.  While she was reading, she would crack the cutest little smiles about the content of her mysterious book - she had a grammar school style cover on it. 

I said to my friend, "this girl is driving me insane", he replied, "why she's fat";  I said,"how could you say that, look at her: curvaceous body, sexy eyes, my god that sexy neck, and most of all look how much she is into that book", his reply. "you're weird, I always knew it". LOL! He finished his coffee and left, I stayed. 

I contemplated going over and introducing myself, but I didn't; I felt it was wrong to intrude on her personal space. If it was a bar/lounge, or if she was even aware that there was other people in the room, I would have, but I opted not to. I sat there imagining what she might be reading: an erotic story, a whimsical book on sexuality, or maybe her own novella..... I will never know.
This got me thinking about things that I find sexy: smart girls/guys, well kept feet, toes are oh so sexy, neck and shoulders, belly buttons, curves, how a girl wiggles her panties down to her ankles when taking them off, glasses, READING, body piercing, tattoos, cooking together, eating, feeding each other, smiles, touching-skin on skin, kissing, flirting, silliness, etc. 

If you feel the same way, please add to my list in the comment section:

Do you think I should have approached her?


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